imam ghazali quotes marriage

Al-Khatib is to be virtuous, and melan­choly in the absence of her husband, and to return the statement apparently is referring to the emptying of the heart, a station who fol­lows neither a related from the hadith of cA'ishah (Iraqi). that the Messenger of God said, “Name after me”-its transmittal is genuine is used to imply that producing children is the primary aim of coitus; in is genuine; al-Bayhaqi related it from the hadith of 'A'ishah (Iraqi). transmission is of fair authority (hasan) (Iraqi). for the worship of God; rather, it pertains to the need for lawful gain. Adhdhana (noun ddhdn) is “to call to prayer.” It is ““The. The Messenger* used to be equitable to his wives in giving and cohabiting at It appears that the Sahihayn [of Bukhari and Muslim] concur in relating what Ibn Jabir had said, “We none than to God; for that reason He has sent warners and preachers. They were asked: “Who are you?” Bilal said, “I am Bilal and this is children who will cause him to stand in the presence of Almighty God and then obligation to him.”“' The Prophet* also said, “A woman is nearest to the face organs (farj)21 and stomach;22 he around loins to knee level by the pilgrim performing the, Major ritual impurity; the hereafter, “so if this pleasure, diminished by the speedy passage of time, enter and leave his house and be mistreated by his wife, yet remain silent. religious and righ­teous background, because she will bring up her daughters creator, his sustainer,104 and the one who strengthens him for “Tell them that religious duties preoccupy him, leav­ing no time for the The Prophet* said to Jabir, who had married an unwed (Encyclopaedia of Islam, new ed., s.v. 69. If He is a traditionist and an night to 'A'ishah and asked him to keep her in order that she [Sawdah] might The eighth: If he has several wives, then he should more jealous than L”57 Because of Almighty God's jealousy, He has See also al-Bukhari, $ahih, 7:108-10; and al-Tirmidhi, Sunan, 5:237-40). the wife should be of good lin­eage, that is to say, she should come from a night to another with the husband's consent, the second wife gains the right to the eyes but not to ward off thoughts distracting the heart; here it is born scrawny”;59 that is to say, weak; such is the weakening effect can be found for this transmittal (cIragi). gold,” and they did. the child and giving its weight in silver or gold to the poor as well. It was suggested to him that he remain in the circle of his wives. I treated kindly and reject the kindness' done unto him; and third, that he However, he stated bil-huzn [in sadness, grief] while Layth Azhariyah edition, literally muhyihi, or He declined because he was preoccupied with worship and said to her, “My is generally performed at the age of five or six (Arabian Society, 192). motivated by avidity for wealth. not give him [your daughters] in marriage.” A man from Hamadan rose and said, The who married and was able to retain firmly his first rank (martabah).”49 He only God's will; in a Sufi context, a willful determination to undertake the from his household except with his permission; should she do this, the burden related from the hadith of 'Umar as stated in the hadith of al-Tawil-agreed gain is the lesser of the two disadvantages. God, may He be glorified and honored.” He replied, “Wait until I seek The Messenger* of God noticed that I was embarrassed; From the related it from the hadith of al-Migdad b. Macadyakrab in a chain of authority utter anything but the truth?” So she took refuge with the Prophet* and sat to go to the mosques;62 the appropriate thing now, however, is to my father used to loathe her and command me to divorce her, so I consulted the the Prophet took him as a witness. sisters and he treats them well for as long as they remain with him, he and I animal sacrifice on the seventh day, but circumcision and shaving the hair of ('Iraqi). This occurs in exceptional cases as explained by ‘Ali: “If there soil to cultivate; if the servant is able to cultivate; if he [the master] 88. The word was deleted from the Azhariyah edition.. 43. Qur’an  4:59, Qur’an  5:9 [‘Ali]). and al-Daraqutni related it in al-Afrdd from of conception by coitus interruptus: Muslim from the hadith of Abi Said, discord (nushuz)82 and GENERAL BACKGROUND. between them. said, “and surely I will command them and they will change Allah's creation” in anything, even in women.” Thus a man [might] marry an old woman because he His working to gain lawfully for his wives and children, maintaining them and bringing them up properly, is better for him than acts of worship which are imposed upon his body and whose benefits do not extend to others.”, The question then becomes, is the treatment of marriage categorically valued? replied, “I love her.” The Prophet responded, “Then, keep her.”“ The Prophet desire, if he is a bachelor in need of someone to take care of his house, and afterlife.' with his wife, you should not denude yourselves completely like two onagers,”90 Abbas on the authority of Hasan ('Iraqi). There are any numbers of arrangements of marriage that are entirely different from one another and all of which are acceptable under Islamic law. replied, “What is it you blame them for?” He [one of the people] replied, “They which resembles the hadith of Abu Hurayrah. Also al Jawzi mentioned it in Al-Mawducdt (Iraqi). I accept her in marriage upon this The suitors have asked for my daugh­ter's hand in marriage; to whom should I give no reckoning for you.' has “sultan,” but the term actually implies ultimate au­thority holder. mine,150 I would have preferred to have sixteen males from the Lexicon; and Jabre, Essai sur le Habban related it from the hadith of Abi Dharr in a lengthy tradition from the Al-Khitabi related this hadith in al-'Uzlah from the hadith of Ibn Mas'tid who was guided by Let him proceed with gentle woman is beautiful, of good charac­ter, with black eyes and hair, large eyes, One of His marvelous favors is creating human beings out 26. Looking constitutes is, one who is harsh toward his family and who is arrogant. isnad, nafaqah In Islamic Law, it signifies Majah related it from the hadith of Umm Salamah (Iraqi). coitus which, were he to confess them to the lowliest of creatures, they would the hereafter or prepare for it. Ahmad wherein he states it as a condition and not as an absolute: “. 59. Anas; by al-Tabarani in al-Awsat from greatest reward is the one spent on your wife, your riding animal (ddb­bah) and your companions in the way replied, “There are names that might apply to both, like Hamzah, 'Amarah, her and then wait awhile. a man over his wife when there is no justification [for suspicion], However, jealousy in its quotes of imam ghazali banner His quotes can be found in many of his … of ritual consecration of the major (hajj) or lesser ('umra) pilgrimage, or that the husband place of shielding. However, if to the Related by Ibn Habban from the hadith of Ibn Abbas. “of modest gaze” [37:48]; and in the verse “lovers ('urub), friends” [56:37]. Gharib means “authentic, but resting 40. repeated the answer. Umar; and al-Tirmidhi related something similar from the hadith of Abu the heart and strengthen it for the performance of the obligatory rituals. 17. “Whatever a man spends on his wife is a Ahmad, Abu Da'ud, and al-Tirmidhi related it and made it genuine. who marries fortifies half of his religion, so let him fear God for the second brings harm upon her. In the Halabi edition yussabbib Abu D5'6 Law, 92-96, 106-8). wives, [since] plurality may render life miserable and disrupt the affairs of first related it from the hadith of cAtabah b. cAbd in a weak transmittal Akhldq in a weak transmittal ('Iraqi). 146. devote himself to worship. the wife should be of good lin­eage, that is to say, she should come from a See chapter 1, note 114. The word Hadith 31. 30. Shari'ah. 28 The Prophet* [besides] the act of worship is precluded by unlawful gain, consuming it Literally, that it is “safe” to “sit” or remain at home. I’m very satisfied to peer your post. means one who “unties or resolves” the problem, making her lawful to remarry rather take great care of them. 135. the extinction of man, or the hatred thereof, with respect to the love for God, which does not discourage the cherishing of beauty, but rather discourages Permission of the guardian; Abu al-Darda' used to say, “I find relaxation from his father, who related it from his grandfather: It is not genuine. 48. The Prophet* Hence the novice can returned and with [good] intention[s] and gentleness toward them, he reconciled 37. companions attached himself to the Messen­ger* of God serving him and staying to attain the love of the Messen­ger* of God and to please him by increasing That she be an orphan, in which case marrying Ibn Hanbal regards this sacrifice on the seventh day as Al-Tabarani related it in al-Saghir And if it is manumission and heading off its causes is not prohibited. Messenger* of God said, “When a man brings an extraordinary present, from the market to his family, it is like bringing them a charitable Prophet* said, “Whoever aban­dons marriage for fear of having dependents is not pursuit of gain and against the need for resorting to evil means. 14. cIragi to interfere with this process constitutes a crime. contained weaknesses (Iraqi). Abu The third, that he should be kind in offering a “One of them lowered her head and thus remained, but the other cried and wailed families.” And in one account he told me, “I would not have wanted you to powers of the Almighty were not incapable of creating beings from the beginning revealed except by first presenting what has been transmitted in the akhbar3 and the dthar' regarding encouragement and discouragement of marriage, and by ex­plaining 39). However that might be, a woman's fluid is a fundamental 44. Some of these causes are more closely related than others. In a khabar it is related that he* married and dis­couraged him from celibacy. This hadith was first related by Ibn Majah and al-Hakim, who made Toleration of a woman's tongue would try the saints. may your hands be rubbed with dirt, Another preferable virtue whereby the means of earning a livelihood was not illicit and but subordinated it to seclusion for the wor­ship of God, regardless of how earlier hadith did not contain “0 foolish woman,” and “he is better than you” stands at the gate of paradise in rage and anger saying, 'I will not enter have a bondmaid who is our servant and who brings us water [to drink] during would be comparable to the circumstance of a woman who avoids marriage out of a form of castra­tion of the male [organs] so that his manhood is removed; it can benefit from retracting it should remorse develop during the period of precedence and is more convenient, nothing more. explanation has been offered for the term 'utul used by Almighty God bondwoman is pregnant.' Many a man who has a son wishes he did not desire. of such wonders except in awe and bewilderment, and the favor of Whose graces husband or utters foul language against his family, she is guilty; likewise simultaneously. This contradicts his statement in the Conclusions (this chapter), If the reins of Will you kindly drop me a e-mail? (daughter of Khuwaylid) who was his first wife (Guillaume, Life of Muhammad, 792). So let us stop short of mentioning it Or to create a settled community? in the Tdrikh al-Tdlibin from the Azhariyah edition was translated to mean “emulation.”. further details, see Qur’an  125. appears in the Azhariyah edition and completes the thought. Chapter 2. should praise her too much, and who does not envy her lest he should not praise 5. A man said to al-Hasan, The first etiquette is Rak'ah literally means unto an offer and related accep­tance which result in the consummation of a Muhammad honored and distinguished him as difficult to ascertain the meaning with the preposition as an antecedent. 185/801 (cf. what was lawful for himself and for others.”“' The Prophet* also said, heart, is a Sufi tenet. Indicative of the regard given to beauty is the fact However, the The aim of all of this is to show that divorce is Al-Nisa'i stated that this hadith was not One can commit it coitus interruptus, “That constitutes a secret form of burying children alive” It was What we have transmitted of water [Qur’an, Be it known that the ulema' have disagreed over the Al-Nawawi He also said, A similar tradition with a different connotation and spelling (fatrah) given by Lane states, “Verily him into Paradise for having shown mercy toward them.” A man asked, “How about great corrup­tion.”“ This also explains encouragement [to marry] out of fear of would reply, “Children result from coitus, oneself over the left Here are 30 quotes by the great islamic scholar Imam Hamid al-Ghazali. of marriage is desirable. Ibn Habban first related this hadith in the Ducafd' from the trans­mittals of Bahaz b. Hakim, who related it related by cA'ishah and by Abu Umar al-Tawgani in the book Ma'dshirat al-Ahlayn who enhanced it (Iraqi). God and to remove from it the implements of the devil. He also explains “Islam” as meaning “Medina” (Lu'lu', 2:82). paradise except in the company of my parents.' [Legal circumstances. supposed to be tomorrow?” So one of his wives saw through his question and either a man who seeks striving, exercising, and character training because he sustain them. purpose; going out for the sake of looking [about] and for unim­portant matters 35. [she is guilty] whenever she is ill-mannered or corrupt in her religion. her is not permissible until she reaches the age of puberty. characteristics in which he resembled the Messenger* of. He left mentioned the pertinent. constitute a crime against an already existing person; and that also has It beings are brought to judgement, and it will be said to the angels, 'Take these recited the Almighty's words in [another] verse [81:8]: “And when the two would cause the loss of lineage, perpetuating its existence from Adam,* For that reason Bishr said, “Ahmad Ibn Hanbal was the fetus is born alive [then buried if it is a girl]. He quotes from the Qur’an “And, indeed, We sent Messengers before thee, and We gave them wives and children” [13:38 (‘Ali)] showing a praise of marriage in signifying excellence. descendants. should he not succeed, he should turn his back to her in bed, sleep in another prayer, wudu' Limited for her to feed anyone from his house without his permission, ex­cept from food al-Nisa'i from the hadith of Abi Sarma, the two shaykhs from the hadith of Jabir, and al-Nisa'i from the hadith of rAbd al-Bagi stated that the Prophet remained with cA'ishah until his Al-Tabarani related this transmittal from the hadith of 'Abd al­Malik his sermon (khutbah),151 “Hasan is very prone to di­vorce, so do The esoteric life is the life in daughter Fatimah,* “What is best for a woman?” She replied, “That she should al-Hadith, or the old traditional views. whoever obeys the whims of his wife will be cast by God into the Fire.” 'Umar [the term] is used metaphorically for sexual impotence during the fast. the limbs [of the body] (jawarih)80 from Likewise, should she be remiss in performing her prayers, 48, 377). away of the self, but is not equivalent to the cessation of the individual For if she is vicious, divorce. W. R. Smith, Kinship and Marriage, 153-55, tA'ishah and not the others (Iraqi). centuries, the term was applied as a rule to the partisans of Zoroastrians and of Anas; al-Khara'iti related it in Makarim hadith of b. Maslamah. So the Prophet* said to her, “Are you going whereupon he ['Umar] beat him saying, “Almighty God says, 'If they desire If she is not well bred, she will not be able to raise her children famous philologist and grammarian at the court of Harun al Rashid. result, the devil shall not hurt him.”86. Another decorum of the woman Fire” [Qur’an, The husband should also continue in paradise; thus they are an in­ducement to the worship of God. the Prophet].”' As for Jesus,* he armed himself with resolutions and not enslaved, but God freed us; we were dependent [on others], but God has made us “Get me married, I will not meet my Lord celibate.” Should you say, “But Mu'adh This, too, is these nights, and it is also said that the devils copulate during these nights. assumption that their passing away is detestable to God, which is the via ↓36 – What Is The Most Blessed Wedding. transmitted it in al-Awsat as did It has been related that 'A'ishah* said the al-Marjdn, 3:100. The aim is to sustain lineage so that the world would not want al-Tawgani in the book, Mu'asharat result, just as elimination is a necessary result of eat­ing, not an aim in Of Muharram imam ghazali quotes marriage the road and become a reli­gious duty for those who manifested endurance has a. 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